You will raise the kids by yourself, and he won't help even when he's home because he'll be too tired or feel too entitled to HIS time alone. Anyone who's a decent human being should be able to know right from wrong and act accordingly. All 3 times I talked to a shrink to get an objective opinion. Mormon decried it was all a lie, an anti mormon lie. Can they keep a job and or clean up after themselves. How will your spouse feel about that in 20 years. Most want nothing to do with the church. I'm busier than many people my age, but not as much as he is. She will be surprised that a non-Mormon holds the same values she does and respect you. It has made me more creative in utilising time alone that it is sometimes preferred.
And as an anonymous comment put it, date night is sometimes out of the question because he is using his "free" time as catch up on sleep time. Welcome to the future. But if you are with someone who is plainly selfish or dishonest or mean, then don't let them use their occupation as an excuse. When my nephews started looking at porn on computers everybody blamed me when it wasn't me. It is nice to hear that I am not alone, and that we can do it. I have been known to share though because it gets on my nerves when my friends complain to me about how much money we are making Recently by some pure act of coincidence my hubby ended up with a day off on Labor day. You have given me the courage to continue to protect my marriage and children. We'll have to discuss that, now that I actually know some things about some things. I loved being single, and I love dating him now, but demanding rotations are giving me an idea of what his surgical residency will be like except that I know it will be x I have spent hours and hours and hours on blogs like these, trying to understand if it will be worth it-- worth the very real possibility of losing my identity, of boxing myself in career-wise, of never being in control of where I live, of a thousand lonely nights. That will most likely be the deal breaker for her.
Now look at the flip side в if he loves you, and realizes you fully believe, how will he deal with the importance of the temple to you. There is no question that God loves all of His children, and that obviously includes non-members. Would they have stayed in the church if dad was a member.
Here are my thoughts as someone who grew up with a non-mormon father and as someone who married a non-mormon girl. I definitely don't want to lead her on. These were some tips to keep in mind when dating a Mormon guy or girl.